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7th May 2014
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Wedding Day Readings



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With photo-booths, canapes, dessert tables and dancing, it can be easy to forget whilst planning that the ceremony is actually the most important part of your day. In fact, when you ask most brides post-wedding day what their favourite part was, they almost always say the ceremony itself. It is, therefore, very worth your while to invest some time thinking about ways to make it extra-special, and not just a run-of-the-mill legal exchange!


Having a beautiful reading or two, is not just a way to add a very personal touch to your day, but can also be a way to involve family members and friends. Perhaps you’re only having a small bridal party but have a friend you’d love to have involved in some way, a reading could be perfect!


There are a couple of things to bear in mind when choosing something. Firstly, if you’re having a civil ceremony, the reading cannot be religious, so nothing from the Bible or religious hymns or poetry. Also, give some thought to the length of the reading. Whilst there are some adorable short poems around, these can sometimes sound a little insignificant - try clustering a little group of 3 short verses read by 3 of your best friends. Lastly, spend some time choosing the reading with the chosen reader- they need to feel comfortable with what they’re saying, and ideally connect with it personally in order to deliver a sterling performance!


We’ve pulled together a selection of our favourite readings, both religious and not, to point you in the right direction.


 


From: 'Captain Corelli's Mandolin' by Louis de Bernieres


Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your root was so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.


Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.


Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.


Sonnet 18 by William Shakespeare (1564-1616)


Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?


Thou art more lovely and more temperate:


Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,


And summer’s lease hath all too short a date;


Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,


And often is his gold complexion dimm’d;


And every fair from fair sometime declines,


By chance, or nature’s changing course, untrimm’d.


But thy eternal summer shall not fade,


Not lose possession of that fair thou owest;


Nor shall death brag thou wanderest in his shade,


When in eternal lines to time thou growest;


So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,


So long as lives this, and this gives life to thee


Elizabeth Barrett Browning - Sonnet 43


How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.


I love thee to the depth and breadth and height


My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight


For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.


I love thee to the level of everyday's


Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.


I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;


I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.


I love thee with the passion put to use


In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.


I love thee with a love I seemed to lose


With my lost saints,—I love thee with the breath,


Smiles, tears, of all my life!—and, if God choose,


I shall but love thee better after death.


'Union' from The Beginning to End by Robert Fulghum


You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks — all those sentences that began with "When we're married" and continued with "I will and you will and we will"- those late night talks that included "someday" and "somehow" and "maybe"- and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, " You know all those things we've promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word." Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another- acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this- is my husband, this- is my wife.


A Lovely Love Story by Edward Monkton


The fierce Dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice. Although it was cold he was happy in there. It was, after all, his cage.


Then along came the Lovely Other Dinosaur.


The Lovely Other Dinosaur melted the Dinosaur's cage with kind words and loving thoughts.


I like this Dinosaur thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur.


Although he is fierce he is also tender and he is funny.


He is also quite clever though I will not tell him this for now.


I like this Lovely Other Dinosaur, thought the Dinosaur. She is beautiful and she is different and she smells so nice.


She is also a free spirit which is a quality I much admire in a dinosaur.


But he can be so distant and so peculiar at times, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur.


He is also overly fond of things.


Are all Dinosaurs so overly fond of things?


But her mind skips from here to there so quickly thought the Dinosaur. She is also uncommonly keen on shopping.


Are all Lovely Other Dinosaurs so uncommonly keen on shopping?


I will forgive his peculiarity and his concern for things, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. For they are part of what makes him a richly charactered individual.


I will forgive her skipping mind and her fondness for shopping, thought the Dinosaur. For she fills our life with beautiful thoughts and wonderful surprises. Besides, I am not unkeen on shopping either.


Now the Dinosaur and the Lovely Other Dinosaur are old.


Look at them.


Together they stand on the hill telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs.


And that, my friends, is how it is with love.


Let us all be Dinosaurs and Lovely Other Dinosaurs together.


For the sun is warm.


And the world is a beautiful place


 1 Corinthians 13


If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.


Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.


Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end.


Colossians 3 v12-17


As God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in the one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; teach and admonish one another in all wisdom; and with gratitude in your hearts sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.


Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte


I have for the first time found what I can truly love – I have found you. You are my sympathy – my better self – my good angel; I am bound to you with a strong attachment. I think you good, gifted, lovely: a fervent, a solemn passion is conceived in my heart; it leans to you, draws you to my center and spring of life, wraps my existence about you – and, kindling in pure, powerful flame, fuses you and me in one. It was because I felt and knew this, that I resolved to marry you.


He's Not Perfect - Bob Marley


He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you. 





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